Get Ready for Father's Day
Get Ready for Father's Day

Get Ready for Father's Day

This weekend we’re celebrating the most important men in our lives – our...

Get Ready for Father's Day

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Get Ready for Father's Day

This weekend we’re celebrating the most important men in our lives – our dads, grandfathers, husbands, sons, partners, uncles, friends… If you’re planning a backyard barbecue, we’ve got some spectacular recipes for appetizers, salads, drinks (both alcoholic and non-alcoholic), and more…everything you need to make your party a smashing success!

Rose, Rose, Thorn, Bud.
Rose, Rose, Thorn, Bud.

Rose, Rose, Thorn, Bud.

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Rose, Rose, Thorn, Bud.

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Rose, Rose, Thorn, Bud.

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Summer Trip?
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Transition
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Transition

We’re in the midst of transitioning from Spring to Summer. The earth is filled with growth and promise: there are glorious flowers peeking through the soil and nutrient dense fruits and vegetables simmering just below the surface.

The Lion and The Unicorn
The Lion and The Unicorn

The Lion and The Unicorn

More than four-hundred years ago, a single sovereign came to rule two kingdoms. Each...

The Lion and The Unicorn

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The Lion and The Unicorn

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Virtual Pride
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Virtual Pride

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Virtual Pride

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Your Life Matters
Your Life Matters

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My Exercise Fundamentals have borne these titles: Movement Matters. Mindfulness...

Your Life Matters

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People don’t typically ask to be celebrated for their differences. They ask to be accepted. Presumably accepting others begins with accepting ourselves. We need to know our whole self. To accept our whole self. As the foundation for embracing and being our whole self. Love is a basic human right. And so, therefore, is love of yourself. 

Different Differences
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There is a lot of literature out there on the power of being different. The importance...

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Lip-Smackingly Delicious Summer Recipes
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What a beautiful start to the weekend! Our team has been spending some extra time in...

Lip-Smackingly Delicious Summer Recipes

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What a beautiful start to the weekend! Our team has been spending some extra time in the garden and whipping up our favourite summer treats to help beat the heat. Spoil yourself, your family, and your friends with these delicious recipes all summer long.

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Adversity & Opportunity
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Adversity & Opportunity

Sometimes an adversity will burn trees, homes, and bridges for miles around. For a moment there seems to be so little you can do. As indeed there is. And that can be the magic of it. We know that too many options, too much choice can be debilitating. It can leave you questioning your judgement to the point that no matter what you decide, you remain a little anxious that you could have chosen better. 

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Adversity & Survival

Adversity & Survival

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Adversity & Survival

Our bodies are physically programmed to handle adversity. It’s one of the reasons we’ve survived for as long as we have. When bombarded with an onslaught of incredible physical demands, the human body ultimately responds by increasing energy efficiency, building lean tissue, and increasing neuro-muscular mechanism so we are stronger and more powerful, and improves our capacity to resist fatigue and handle stress.

Adversity
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Adversity

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The Art of Putting
The Art of Putting

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The Art of Putting

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Don't Stop Believing
Don't Stop Believing

Don't Stop Believing

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Don't Stop Believing

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Getting out of trouble
Getting out of trouble

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Pitching wedge, gap wedge, sand wedge, and lob wedge. These are the golf clubs with the...

Getting out of trouble

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Getting out of trouble

Pitching wedge, gap wedge, sand wedge, and lob wedge. These are the golf clubs with the highest loft. Designed for chips, pitches, and playing out of sand bunkers. Designed – in other words – to get you out of trouble after you’ve made a less than optimal shot.

5 Minutes with Meg: Wishes Edition

Posted: Dec 23, 2019

I’ve been thinking a lot about…
…the magic of wishes.

Is there anything incredible you are wishing for this holiday season?

Walt Disney said it beautifully:

“When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who are, anything your heart desires will come to you.” – Jiminy Cricket

But really? I’ve got to tell you, that hasn’t been my experience.

If you know me, you know I’m a huge supporter of the power of hope. There is so much science that supports the benefits of having wishes and the positive hope that those wishes will come true. These people may become more driven, and are more willing to free up and commit more resources (energy, time, money) than those who aren’t dreaming big. So, sometimes the simple act of having an awesome wish and being hopeful is enough to make that wish come true. But just as often, it’s not.

Sometimes the very excitement and positive affect that accompanies creating the wish, sharing it, getting excited about it, tricks the body and soul into thinking the wish or goal attainment has already transpired. A type of complacency can settle in. And then – goodness forbid – we encounter an unforeseen challenge or set back. We’re likely to give up. Wish shattered.

But that’s not to say we aren’t to wish and hope for a beaudacious outcome. We are. Definitely. It’s just that it’s only step one. If you put your right foot down and leave your left foot hanging, what happens?  Ok, you hop. Nice. But eventually, you are likely to fall. So, put your right foot down, and then your left. 

So, vital step #2: anticipate the Obstacles, and Prepare and Plan.

Quick digression: Scientist Dr. Gabriele Oettingen has done some extremely interesting and compelling research on exactly this. She has even developed a website and app called WOOP my life. I’m only familiar with her research, but feel free to check out what she describes as practical, accessible strategies to turn dreams into achievable goals: http://woopmylife.org/woop-1

I’ve added an H to Gabriele’s anagram:

WHOOP! (Who couldn’t use a little “Whoop” now and again?!)

Wish, Hope, Outcome, Obstacle, Preparation/Plan.

Step 1 or WHO:

Who?! YOU! This step is all about YOU.

What’s your Wish? What are all the things you Hope to achieve? Define the ultimate Outcome as clearly as you can. Don’t be afraid to be Hopeful about attaining that Outcome. Your HOPE will make you confident, energized, motivated…and the best part? Having wishes and being hopeful is like being a kid again: IT’S SO MUCH FUN!!!!!

Step 2 or OP:

(aka Operation you’re going to be amazing!)

Ok. Things get a little more serious here. This is the tougher part. The grown-up part in some ways. Except kids are typically REALLY GOOD AT ASKING FOR HELP. So that is often a vital part of Step 2. Remember that for later:

OBSTACLES: Identify them.

  • Have you tried to attain this goal before? If so, what got in your way? What were the toughest parts?
  • Do you know someone who has tried this before and succeeded? What did they find toughest? Someone who tried and failed? What got in their way?
  • Do your best to determine what the possible challenges will be. Even if they never come to pass, the simple act of acknowledging their reality will get your feet more firmly planted and remove some of that possible complacency.

PREPARE & PLAN:

  • If the obstacle comes knocking, what can you do to overcome? 
  • What can you do to keep yourself motivated? 
  • Could you alter an outcome to make it more moderate (more achievable) for the time being?
  • Can you slightly extend your timeline?
  • Who can you turn to for support? Have that lifeline ready before the storm hits. And then ASK FOR HELP.

There’s nothing simple about this…but my 5 minutes are more than up. Let’s revisit this with some real-life examples to help really understand and make use of these steps. We can add a little – or a lotta – WHOOP to our January?!!!

If you have an awesome fitness or health wish you’re trying to make come true, and you think I might be able to help, please don’t hesitate to reach out!

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Meg Sharp, MSc., B.Ed.Kin, FST, Executive Director of Personal Training, Cambridge Group of Clubs

msharp@cambridgegroupofclubs.com

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